The National Mentoring Day will launch for the first time in Haiti to recognize the significant benefits of mentoring across the country and will takes place on September 24th each year.
Our Mentoring Program is designed to help young people discover their true PURPOSE. In doing so we tackle various areas our teens struggle with on a daily basis.
A child born to a mother who can read and write is 50% more likely to survive past the age of five.Educated mothers are more than twice as likely to send their children to school.Girls with eight years of education are four times less likely to marry as children. A girl child with nine years of education can earn 20% more as an adult. If every woman in Haiti connected with a Mentor that can guide them, maternal mortality will fall by 70%.
The consequences of not understanding and addressing these facts are chaotic for the world at large.
I remember a conversation I had a while ago with a friend of mine during which I expressed my chagrin at the fact that young people joined the sex business because it was promised that their families would be compensated with money or less. I just couldn’t understand how someone could sale their kids for money to another friends.
Then my friend said, “For most of these young people, they can be more easily drawn into making drastic choices simply because they lack knowledge of the intricacies of their actions. It is then that they become tools of another person.”
It makes something sink in, this statement. An educated youth and an illiterate one do not think the same . They perceive differently, understand differently, and approach things differently. A Mentor for me does not just add quality to life; it defines the quality of life to an undeniably gigantesque extent. It cannot be overemphasized. The matter should not be whether a person is a male or a female. The question should be, “Is this a human being?”, and if the answer is yes, then education/ mentoring is an absolute must.
However, the purport here is to discuss the importance of Mentoring the girl child in particular, the factors affecting girl child mentoring, and to touch on the impact of girl child education in Haiti.
Where are we now?
Although in the last several decades, gigantic strides have been taken towards reducing the effects of this phenomenon, it is unfortunately true that girl children are still grossly left behind with respect to education in Haiti. The reasons for this are multifarious, with factors such as poverty, early marriage and pregnancy, religious isolation, cultural and societal discrimination against women, and not surprisingly, illiteracy playing key roles. All these factors are intertwined and overlapping.
For instance, a report by The World Poverty Clock in June 2018 shows that nearly 50% of Haiti, million of people are currently living in extreme poverty. This extreme poverty forces citizens to make hard, grisly choices and prioritize in the most ill-advised ways.
It’s common knowledge that where lack is prevalent, lots of Haitian families tend to send their boys to school and leave the girls at home. Why the preference? Because in Haiti culture and society, the woman is naturally to be relegated to the background as it is believed that she should be “seen and not heard”.
Girl children are married off at alarming ages (especially in the north) due mostly to poverty, religious isolation and of course, illiteracy of both the parents and the girl child herself. In fact, the legal age of consent to sexual activity in Haiti is 10 years of age.
All these factors affecting girl child education in Haiti conjoin and build up to become a formidable force against which we push. But it is quite ironic that the most obvious tool for combating these factors is none other than education, education, and more education of the girl child.
“Why Mentoring the girl child then?”, one might ask.
The reasons are plenteous and ubiquitous in their reach, certainly unable to fit into one write up. Nevertheless, for the purpose of this article, We shall try to contain them into five major reasons why girl child Mentoring is of paramount importance in Haiti.
1. Mentoring in general strengthens and improves the economy of a country, thereby naturally pushing back the fences of poverty.
The economy of a country, its development, its strength are all dependent, in part, on how educated its citizens are. A largely uneducated country is a country that is going nowhere. That being said, women make up at least half the entire population of Haiti. Imagine that Haiti is 50% male and 50% female, but of the females, only about 20% are educated as against 39% for their male counterparts. Now imagine a man with a weak right leg and a stump for the other. How shall he walk, let alone run?
That is the exact state of Haiti with more than half of its entire female population uneducated. Illiteracy of the girl child renders the majority of millions of Haitians unable to contribute in substantial ways to the development of the nation economically, politically, intellectually, and in other such ways. Let’s not forget that the whole leg (the male population) is not exactly in sterling condition either.
In other words, Haiti is literally hopping on one weak foot on a race track. So the more girl children are educated, the more that stump grows out and consequently, the sooner we have a chance at an actual race.
2. Girl child with a mentor most definitely improves the overall health of a family, a society, a nation.
Mentoring the girl child contains the further spread and growth of various health hazards such as early pregnancy, female circumcision, AIDS and other STDs, diseases in children such as polio and yellow fever, etc. Child pregnancy and female circumcision are particular evils exclusive to the girl child.
Especially in the southern part of Haiti, very few girls are suffered a formal education. This is owing to cultural and religious perceptions of women and their roles in society (perceptions that still have such deep roots in the area because of the widespread illiteracy prevalent there!). Because these families are poor and these girls are uneducated and without prospects or any knowledge with which they can financially contribute to the family in the future, giving them out for marriage from as early as nine years of age becomes a way to obtain dowry and get by. The girls are considered to be some sort of acquired property that only pays off in the form of dowries. This translates into the reality that a disturbing 32% of teenagers in the rural areas of Haiti have begun childbearing.
Apart from the sad and devastating physiological and psychological effects of this outrage such as Vesico Vaginal Fistula (VVF), sexual dysfunction, and incredibly low self-esteem to name a few, there are issues born of this anomaly that affect the society on a larger scale.
There’s the fact that most of these girl children – with their own newly born children – end up begging on the streets, under the bridges, in every corner they can find. There’s the fact that these children neither know how to or have the means to appropriately take care of their own children and consequently, vaccinations, proper child care, proper dieting, child health, protection from exposure, and cleanliness are all swept under the proverbial rug. These girl children are not physically, financially, and emotionally equipped to have their own children. They simply end up releasing more people they cannot cater for into the world, increasing the rate of poverty by jaw-dropping numbers.
3. Girl child mentoring is the most pivotal move towards securing gender equality.
Direct your attention back to our hypothetical one-legged man for a bit. Again, a country that represses the social, economic, intellectual, human rights of women is a country that will always remain in the background. Gender inequality is a redundancy that can hardly be afforded, especially in the face of the present day global clamor for improvement and development. Women should be accorded the due right to engage in politics, to work in every capacity they can, to lead and to direct and only then can we reach for full development.
There is no greater way to smoothen out the conspicuous creases in gender equality than by girl child education. In fact, it is the primary way. We must put pens and books in the hands of young girls and just watch them go. It is proven, in every way possible that the female is just as mentally capable as the male and can excel in every way there is to excel. So for the individual and greater good, the importance of gender equality and in turn, girl child education can never be over stressed.
4. Girl child mentoring definitely decreases the rate of domestic and sexual violence.
Educated women consider themselves to be of value to their families, spouses, societies and most importantly, to themselves. It is therefore less likely for an educated woman with prospects to subject herself to physical or sexual abuse or to remain a victim of such.
The exposure education gives a girl child makes her more likely to develop a concrete self-esteem, thereby immensely upping her protection of herself. Most illiterate women find it harder to walk out of abusive relationships and marriages because they have no means to look after themselves. This is however not the case for most educated women who can provide for themselves.
5. The more the girl child educating/ mentoring, the less the population explosion.
Women who have mentors make smarter decisions regarding reproduction than uneducated women. They tend to have fewer and healthier children as most contribute financially to their family in some way, know how to go about contraception, and tend to plan properly for children. A UNESCO study in Brazil in the 2000s revealed that literate women had an average of 2.5 children and illiterate women had an average of six children.
Join us today to help continue our efforts to mentoring youth in Haiti to RISE and become the maker of their own destiny.